I knew that was coming ;).
Well, I actually have used {{delete}} quite a few times and reverted those who reverted you multiple times, to be fair. Which Nakaner complained about on my talk page (resolved through archiving them). I’ve also reverted you quite a few times and restored pages too (mostly in that mass reversion spree of mine, which you complained about and I apologized for). And in that spree I started reverting not just you but your opponents again and I also repeatedly reverted myself over and over again, blanking and refilling and blanking and refilling and repeat, spurring that famous self-edit war of mine. So I apparently didn’t even agree with myself then, with one side of me wanting to do this, another to do that, etc. (also I was in a weird state of mind then, where I admittedly lost all reason and went way overboard with not taking sides / taking everyone’s side, which I luckily managed to snap out of, see my talk page apology for the story behind it). It basically became a speedy race to be on everyone’s good side by repeatedly reverting their opposers and vice versa. Little did I realize that by repeatedly reverting everyone on all sides I would only make all of them mad at me… that may seem obvious, but I was in a sticky situation at the time.
Confused yet ;)?
So it’s not personal. Note: I am not performing any more reversions until this discussion is finished, and I hope no one else does either.
I try to keep middle ground ;).
Well, I’ll admit that when I first stepped in to the deletion war (through looking at Polarbear’s contribs) last summer I at first saw it as an opportunity to take Polarbear’s side just so he could, err, maybe have a better image of me than he used to. And I actually went along with that crazy plan… but once I was blasted by that one adamant sea of fire (yes, I’m reining in the puns again ;)), which knocked some sense into me, I realized that I was wrong. I was so consumed in trying to get Polarbear’s respect after what happened between us in 2017 that I didn’t even bother to consider why you were deleting pages in the first place, or have an opinion of my own. Since that second message I gave you in July 2018 I have been authentic to my views instead.
(What I just said was admittedly an over six months old secret ;)).
Like you said about RicoZ, you’re not my enemy either. In fact, none of you are. We’re supposed to be a community, work things out, hold discussions first.
And I also noticed how you could have been treated better, by the way. Like how Nakaner, Mateusz, and Tordanik reverted you without discussing with you first. How multiple users discussed you without you knowing and mass complained on your talk page in the span of less than a week, leaving you to have to juggle 7 conversations at once. How Polarbear analogized you with a book burning iconoclast. How RicoZ talked behind your back. And then someone (me) comes and reverts all of you (sorry about that).
To be fair to them, maybe they actually have an emotional attachment to them (for unknown reasons). Which would explain why they did what they did. Some people don’t want to let go of anything. And it’s tricky to draw the line. I thank Tigerfell for the great work at drawing those lines though.
I also admittedly have some reservations about deleting pages that have actual content in them, somewhat like RicoZ (although I see the benefits Adamant1 outlined of deleting certain pages). At one point (July 2018) I wanted to keep them all, at one point (November 2018) I didn’t care if (and in fact hoped) all of them got deleted, and at another point (February 2019) I didn’t even care if they were deleted or kept during my mass reversion spree. So I’ve changed my mind multiple times during this deletion war. However after what happened a few weeks ago I think I’ve finally formed a concrete opinion.
You, adamant one, are very adamant about this, adamant Adamant1 ;).
Hmm, so my apology about my mass reversion spree of literally everyone on all sides (pro-delete and anti-delete) in the deletion war, including myself, wasn’t effective ;)? I thought it was (and much needed) :).
Thanks Tigerfell ;). Nakaner hasn’t replied yet though.
There is a possibility that Polarbear could persuade the other DWG members to go on his side though. And he could also extend official DWG business over to the deletion war (I haven’t seen a rule that prevents something like that). Especially if a) the other DWG members are doing other things and no one’s in his way, or b) he did enough to persuade them that they follow along.
I completely agree with that ;). But in this case, an actual member of the DWG is involved in the conflict.
By the way, Adamant1, what do you think of my idea about moving (most) old proposals to the original proposers’ userspaces? It solves the category and the search problem. Maybe it’s a chance to cool down the angry mob.